Dry as a bone symptoms and conditions

Going on my 4th month on levora I have developed something called vaginitis, I have retained more water then a sponge, I'm so moody, I have been spotting (sometimes heavy sometimes lite) for the last 2 months and to top it off I have NO SEX DRIVE!!!!! DRY AS A BONE!!! I have never experienced something like this.I have talked to my doctors and they have all said to wait it out I should be ok in the next 3 months...well, no I haven't.

I had mirena put in one year ago. During that time I have had extreme back pain ( Feels like someone hit me with a bat in the kidneys) And a Cramping sensation on the right side radiating down my thigh. (It feels like a HOT knife being twisted in my side) I have also experienced hair loss, weigh gain, and no periods but I chalk most of that up to having a baby 13 months ago because they are common side effects to birth for me. Other side effects I have had--- my husband has become allergic to me. He gets a rash from intercourse. I read that one women was have allergenic reactions but has anyones spouse or partner had rashes? (No it is not an STD we all ready went to doctors they said it was a allergy reaction and they said if he can't get better that I may need to remove it)

Now my doctor is telling me that my progesterone and estrogen are low. Too low for a women of 31. Is this also a side effect or am I starting Menopause? I am nursing as well so that can account for the low estrogen but what about the Progesterone

Dosage: 0.4mg / Day for 5 days.
Age: 26
Occupation: Chemist

Physical:
Feels like something is pulling down on my lungs inside of my chest. Sinus blockage. It feels actually like Viagra where there is swelling in the sinus cavity but not due to mucus. Result is a slightly blocked airway in nasal passage. NO EJACULATE, able to orgasm, but nothing comes out. (A good male birth control pill?) Sporadic, short headaches (~2-4 / Day). Shallow breathing, shortness of breath after going up stairs. Feeling weak all day long. Most of these probably due to lower blood pressure.

Mental:
Wanting to sleep more. A small lack of motivation to socialize, but not major. Annoyed / Angered more easily and often. (could be due to NO EJACULATE!!) A little humor there. No, seriously, I am really easy to agitate now. I wouldn't say lower sex drive, but more controlled sex drive. I felt horny most of the time before Flomax, but now only when engaged in sexual activity. (kind of nice actually) Haven't noticed anything about dream alterations.

Side Note:
The ejaculation part scares me a little bit just as others have expressed. As long as it comes back when I am off that is fine. Flomax DOES NOT shrink the prostate, it relaxes the prostate. I can see why this may cause a lack of ejaculate since the prostate in a way, a sperm valve. I feel like this should really be listed in the side effects but I know that masturbation is not part of clinical trials. Interesting though...could it be used as a male birth control pill? The first few days, a small small volume of ejaculate came out. Now, at day 5, dry as a bone.