Emotional agony symptoms and conditions

My wife had one put in about 3 days ago. On the second day, I slipped and made a semi-rude comment based on some mis-information I had. In a few minutes I realized I had spoken based on bad information so I apologized to her. She blew up and got twice as mad, and for the next 14 hours it was pure emotional agony. She brought up small issues that happened years ago and some of it wasn't even true. I was in trouble and getting pounded for little things she had forgiven me for long ago. I knew it was because of the hormonal changes from her Mirena. Also, we hadn't been close sexually for several days before the insertion, but now she has no interest, and just casually pushes me away. Touching her back and kissing her neck means nothing. I hope she has some of these other symptoms quick enough that she puts it together, because if I suggest anything to her at this point, I will lose my head. This is totally unlike her. The change was sudden, and it is clear it's due to the hormonal changes.

I am a 19-year-old female pre-med student who has been taking this nasty drug for exacly 1 year now.... The amount I am on continues to change, for my disease keeps returning and leaving remission. I finally get down to 10mg from 40mg, and have to go back up when symptoms return!!! This is SO discouraging. The worst part is, no one understands the physical and emotional agony this drug brings on. I'm 19 and feel like I'm 90. My body aches, my weight is constantly fluctuating, I bruise from simply being poked (being a clumsy person, I look like I am beat!!), my bones feel as if they are about to break, and I am SEVERELY despressed. Being in college and taking rigorous classes, this is just too much for me to handle anymore... My 5-year relationship with the love of my life/best friend is falling apart because of my horrible mood swings.. don't blame him for leaving. I feel as if this drug has ruined my life more than the disease itself...Does ANYONE know if one's body and mind returns to "normal" after FINALLY being off this drug??? I pray to God the answer is yes... I would appreciate someone's reply and/or insight, because my Dr. fails to tell me about ANY side effects until I mention something. PLEASE REPLY!!!