Ugh, I feel you on that. My doctor STILL won't admit that my depression and migraine headaches (that I had every day for two months) are caused by the pill.
I was put on Lexapro last weekend for my depression and I feel that it's helped me a lot.. my anxiety is gone, and I'm feeling a bit happier lately. I think that my problem was due to a chemical imbalance though.. it wasn't just hormonal. Birth control pills cause certain chemicals in your brain to be depleted, like serotonin, which will make you become depressed if you have low amounts of it.
I don't really like having to take YET ANOTHER pill.. I just want to be free and natural for pete's sakes. But I think I'll give the anti-depressant a few more weeks, just in case.
It's a damn shame how much birth control can ruin someone. We want it to give us confidence in our sex lives (along with getting rid of cramps and such) and it comes with so many side effects that end up damaging us in the end.