Hi all: My wife has been having problems for about a year and whe...

Hi all: My wife has been having problems for about a year and when we started talking about them with our counselor, I realized that the problems began the same time she started taking Topamax. She takes 100mg a day, (4, 25mg pills every night before bed) Thinking back and thinking currently, she has had memory problems, problems holding objects, NO SEX drive, has had problems thinking clearly, moody and is mad at me a lot. This has all lead to problems in our marriage. I'm trying to see if these side effects are common! I have read some posting from others that show some or all of these sypmtoms occurring in themselves or their loved ones. I love my wife greatly and have mentioned not taking these pills anymore, but she has resisted. I'm hopeful with some research and some more first hand accounts, that I can convince her to give this a try and possibly save our marriage. Thanks to any and all who can help.