I've been on NuvaRing for almost a year now and am I realizing my...

I've been on NuvaRing for almost a year now and am I realizing my low sex drive and depression is the cause of the Ring. Since starting the ring I've had the following symptoms: - low sex drive - leg cramp (restless leg) - depression/moodiness - lack of energy/sleepy - breast/nipple tenderness I also have a microscopic amount of blood in my urine and I'm being tested next week- but this could be unrelated. The depression thing just hit me when I visited this site- for months I've been detached and in an emotional slump. I don't want to talk to anyone at work, and I'm dying to get home at the end of the day just to lock myself in my room and not answer the phone if anyone calls. I also feel completely uninterested in my boyfriend of 8 years emotionally and sexually - this is unusual since our relationship has been getting better over time - because of the Ring I feel detached from him and sometimes feel like I could care less if I go weeks without seeing or talking to him which is very unusual for me. I've also had about a 15 lb. weight gain in the past 5 years from using birth control- I'm nervous to stop NuvaRing because I've heard it actually helps with weightloss.