I beleive anything you say reharding thid IUD-don't listen to everything your OBGYN says. Some of is good; some of it isn't accurate- I remember when i was in deep depression the only thing that helped me was to go to church for inspiration and encouragment and also to invest some time "doing you." Put yourself on the "to-do-list" If you feel that getting the IUD out of you will help you feel better. do-it. I've gained @ least 25-30 w/in 3 years and i'm getting it removed 2morrow-i feel relief reading these responses knowing that i'm not by myself and neither are you- if you do get it removed remember put your self on the "list"-go to the spa to release some of those past side effects. i wish you the best and JESUS loves you!