Ladies, I feel like an intruder for being the only male posting a...

yeah.you sure it just the yaz or some other disability she has and you didn't know about.it could be possible but not always.i hope things work out for all the best.

your sure its the yaz.and not something else like a disablity.anyway i hope you do well.and i hope your relationship goes well soon.

3 years is a long time to end a relationship. If you just started noticing then suggest she at least talk to her doctor if she is comfortable with it, and maybe show her this site. But remember, feeling change, sadly, so that may be it also. Hopefully it all works out and you two are able to make something positive come of all of this.

Thanks kates & dragonlady...nice nick btw:)
Appreciate your comments. Things have spiralled downward, we're not together atm - split up the day after christmas. We just couldnt handle all the fighting and constant tension. We're both unhappy, I only want her but she's grown so distant from me it feels like I want it more than she does.
DLady, I hope more than anything it's not the yaz but all signs (in my mind) point in that direction. She was never so distant and cold before she started the stuff.
Kates 3yrs is a long time yes, what hurts even more is that we took our time when we got together initially. So when we became an official couple we were very much in love, began discussing bigger plans - marriage. I was never scared to commit to her until this year, I know I'd be very unhappy if we were to get married anytime soon.
All a man really wants is to be appreciated and not tossed aside.
I'm feeling pretty empty and down, and just plain pathetic.
I hope 2008 brings something positive...

Hi,
My god, reading your post felt like reading about my own life!! Its been exactly the same with me, and I've recently broken up with my gf Michelle. Her reason was "its not working" and shes admitted since that she just can't seem to be happy. I do blame the pill, as like your gf, Michelle was one of the most caring people in the world until she had a month on Yasmin and has been a different person ever since. I wish I had some sort of advice to share but all I've managed to do (after many hours of arguing) is to get her to promise to go to the doctors. I'm hopeful that this might be on the road to recovery but will let you know. I hope things work out with you, I guess its nice to know that you're not alone!!