I'm on my 3rd cycle with NuvaRing. I've been on anti-depressants ...

No, my fiancee has no problems with feeling the NuvaRing. I'm surprised at your partner's possible reactions. He should be checked out by a urologist, rather than blaming it on the ring. 8 out of 10 men don't feel it, statistically speaking. Also, make sure that the ring is far enough inside.I had to figure that out. It was uncomfortable for me to use it at first until I realized it wasn't far enough inside. Once it is, you cannot feel it, unless of course you have some sort of allergic reaction I guess. There's no way it can get lost.

Yes! I am also starting my 3rd cycle and have had similar reactions. I had very bad skin reaction. I am not on any other medication and am not allergic to anything else at all. I also have noticed bumpiness inside. And, my fiancee and I usually use condoms but after the first time without a condom he got some irritation and red bumps. He went to the doctor to get tested for other causes but all came up negative. I guess we all react differently!

I've notice the same problem... The first month I experienced no problems
but by the 2nd and 3rd month I've noticed 2-3 small reddish light pink circles on my penis. They normally go away after 3 days. Cause no pain, no irritation. After they go away the skin appears to be dry-skin. I suspect its an allergy to the ring - even tho' all the experts say "cant be" (they're only practicing right?) because the spots come instantly a day after having sex.