I too have 2 children, a 2 year old and a 4 year old and had the mirena put in just after my youngest was born. Like you say it is difficult to know if the irritation is caused by the children or the mirena and I waited 1.5 years before I had the mirena remooved. In the beinging I too had terrible anger bolining up inside me and then it went away and came back a few months later. My husband got really angry with me and my relationship suffered because I was a nightmare to live with. I went to the dr a couple of times saying I was depressed and couldn't cope any more. It is strange but while I was acting like it I knew it wasn't normal rational behaviour, I felt like someone was controlling me.
Eventually I decided that while I couldn't confirm it was the mirena something had to change and if there was the slightest chance that I would improve my sex drive, my moodiness and my depression then I would try it. I had the mirena out and I feel like a new person I wish I hadn't waited so long. Who knows if it is psychological or not all I know is the mirena is out and I feel like my old self again. It did take a few weeks to settle down but I am happy again.
I"ve had Merina for 41/2 years and my PMS symptoms got much better after 6months or so. They've been pretty well controlled until the past 3 weeks. I don't know if it's because it's almost time to change it, but I've really had bad PMS. I'm really bloated and feel really frustrated/impatient and I'm snappy with everyone. I'm planning to get another one inserted when this one's removed...so maybe I'll go in early to change it? My periods and cramps have completely stopped... so thats a good thing!
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