I'm sorry for everything you've been through. I'm about a month post-Mirena, and it's getting better every day. About a week ago, I went through a "crash" of sorts where I was sluggish, but that's subsided and the other side effects have faded or are fading. As for getting the mirena removed, I've come across several threads on other sites where women have removed their IUDs themselves and reported it was very easy. My doctor removed mine because I was having my annual exam and hadn't yet made the connection between all my symptoms and the Mirena - I made the connection after my symptoms started getting better within literally hours and decided to get online and search mirena side effects - that's how I found this site. I don't know personally about removing it yourself because I never even checked for strings, but from what some women are reporting, it's possible to do it yourself. Just an idea...check around online for some more information on this. Good luck!!!
My doc also said there's no way the IUD can cause my symptoms Mine is coming out next Friday by a diff doc YAYAYAYAYAY I cant wait
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