I'm 46, female.. developed blood clots on my lungs for apparently...

I'm 46, female.. developed blood clots on my lungs for apparently no reason, found them when going to ER and complaining of bad headache, nausea and left shoulder and back pain. I haven't had a recent surgery, nor was on birth control. I'm dealing with anxiety, depression, unusual headache, horrible back and upper shoulder pain, itching of head, hair falling out during shampooing, , tightness in chest, trouble swallowing, really bad pain in hips, legs and feel like feet swell. I don't sleep well, even on Ambien.. doesn't keep me asleep. I awake in the mornings around 4:30 with diarrhea, nausea, headache and feel awful. Never get a good nights sleep. My hips hurt as well as dealing with parathesias down right arm and into hand.. feels like needles sticking in my hand. Most days I feel wiped out in the afternoon.. as I try and drag myself out of bed to get some excersise. Does anyone deal with parathesia's down their arms or hands.. what feels like nerve pain? Has anyone ever tried Aggrenox, also known as Dipyridamole instead? Or actually tried the real Coumadin, instead of the generic Warfarin? Has any other woman out there been told not to use a tampon when on her cycle, as this will cause more menstrual bleeding? I'm so tired of Dr.'s not having personal experience of their own with this drug.. and telling the patient that they are crazy and need to be on anxiety meds or anti-depressants. I just found out that Warfarin is the main ingredient in RAT POISON.. Has anyone EVER gone the totally nutrition route, juiced and gone radical, telling their Dr.'s that they were getting off of all meds? Does anyone suffer from feeling like their ears are full, or hearing loss? I'm so tired of feeling afraid.. and tossed around by Dr.'s who really don't want to do the research, nor listen to their patients. I'd love to hear from anyone who has some insight..on any or all of the questions..