I absolutely agree with you, Futuredoc - unfortunately, my experience (in the UK) has been that if I display the slightest existing knowledge or inquire about any information, I am treated with either irritation (sometimes anger) that I am "a layman, he/she is the doctor" or amused contempt. The last comment I had, when inquiring about other triptans than Imigran as a treatment for my chronic migraines, was "stop looking on the internet. Everyone's an Amateur GP nowadays!"
I am always polite and defer to the physician's expertise, I am not a hypochondriac - I'm fully aware of the dangers of 'collecting' symptoms as you read about them, I always use reputable sources and I only ever wish to discuss possibilities - including side effects and actions of intended treatment as well as a fully explained diagnosis. I have had several doctors as I've moved- I do find the odd good one - but they are sadly in the minority.
There seems to be a strange attitude to patients being informed individuals nowadays. It leaves me feeling lost and I end up behaving as if I know nothing to placate the doctor. That shouldn't be, surely?
nb. Kudos, Futuredoc - you are studying to go into a difficult profession which is much needed and I have a huge amount of respect for you. Just remember that some patients have had experiences that leave them nervous to ask those important questions. Warm regards :-)
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