An 22 years old and i have a 3 year old son.... i got mirena whe...

Hi sorry to hear all this sorry to any husband or partner your body your pain not theres . this is to all men comdom or two bricks lol

I didn't need to convince my hubby...my moods did that! Honestly, please if you are suffering this much, get it out. Worry about hubby later.

He isn't dealing with the pain, you are!

Yes I agree. If you are miserable, how can you enjoy having sex. To me, that is the type of stuff that kills the mood.

My suggestion for you is KY-Jelly or any other personal lubricant. And you can tell your husband that your would like to increase the fore-play and that the goal should be to just enjoy the experience and each other without any pressure. A lot of times it helps just to know that he wants to please you, and not just have sex with you. Maybe start by taking a bath together or having him to bathe you, and give each other massages. One thing I know is that making love starts way before you get to the bed. You can't start any intimacy in the bedroom, if it is not there any other time. Kiss each other. Hug and hold each other. Say some kind words from time to time. And just show your partner some general kindness. This can help to rebuild the love life.

And do note, that a lot of times the loss of libido for women really starts in the mind. If you have too much on your mind you could be hindering yourself.