I am a 57 year old female and have been on Flomax for 3 years. I...

I am also a 58 year old female who has been on Flomax for 7 weeks now. I have also tried to stop taking this med because of continuous insomnia and extreme fatigue. The drug certainly helps with urinating but I can't take the side effects. I was wondering if you need to wean off slowly (like every other day or every two days) instead of just stopping it cold. My body
seems dependent on it. When I stopped, I had terrible urinary hesitancy. Has anyone tried a slow weaning process?