28y married for 7 years with 4 kids and my life has changed i th...

28y married for 7 years with 4 kids and my life has changed i thought for the better from PATCH to nuvaring .....oh my god.. i woke up like 15 minutes ago with chill's and a itchy feeling between my legs, HIVES. I have flipping hives between my legs... i read all the side effect of an allergic reaction and rash was on there... as i read on .. discharge ( which i haven't had before?)... i googled NUVARING and BAM! all kinds of side effect that they don't list 1. no sex drive 2.moodiness , im not trying to wait for the spots on my face... this is my second month... i hate birth control, but i really cant afford another baby....i want my body back