The strings can be trimmed shorter so he won't feel them.
I was told when I had mine put in that the "strings", which are actually 2 thin gauge wire would curl around my cervix when they were softened by being in my body for awhile. She did say that my husband might feel a pin prick type sensation the first few times we had sex. I guess I just wondered why this thin gauge wire took so long to "soften" when it is in a warm and moist part of the body.
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