Ortho Tri-Cyclen Lo and counseling

I began taking ortho tri cyclen lo after I gave birth to my daughter who is now five. I always had an awesome sex life and after a couple weeks of taking the pill I could care less about sex at all. I thought nothing was wrong I was just tired and maybe holding a grudge...but I had a huge problem. The sex battle continued for five years. My marriage was falling apart and I sought counseling and nothing helped. My husband advised me to talk to other women, and so I did! To my surprise several women had experienced what I was feeling and they had ditched the pill. I quit immediately and within two weeks I WAS BACK!!! I will remain abstinent from the pill!