Remeron and pms

I have been taking 30mg for a year and I have gained about 16 pounds I was 129lbs now i'm 145lbs. Started having terrible dreams more like nightmares. Tired all day long no motivation felt very heavy constantly eating without trying to. No pms no headaches increased sex drive but good being that i didn't have one. Once off meds, weight came off pretty fast, bad pms, headaches, decreased sex drive, irritable, dreams stopped. Overall good medication just wish the weight didn't keep going up and there were no unusual dreams.

I HAVE HAD NO REAL SIDE EFFECTS EXCEPT INCREASE IN APPETITE AND WEIGHT GAIN. I WAS PUT ON THIS DRUG BECAUSE I HAD HORRIBLE STOMACH PAINS LIKE AN ULCER, BUT FOUND OUT IT WAS STRESS. THIS HAS BEEN A GREAT DRUG FOR ME AS FAR AS NO STOMACH PAINS, NO PMS, OR HEADACKS. I JUST DON'T LIKE THE WEIGHT, I WAS 118 POUNDS NOW I AM 125 AND FEEL HEAVY. I TRY TO CUT BACK ON EATING BUT THAT DOSN'T STOP THE WEIGHT. AND I GET FOOD CRAVINGS AND ITS ALWAYS THE JUNK FOOD. I JUST DON'T KNOW IF I WANT TO GO BACK TO FEELING SICK OR JUST PUT UP WITH FEELING FAT!