Mirena Silicone Breast Implants, Liver Enzymes, Muscle Relaxers, Uterous, Pain Medications

I just can't understand. I had my first one placed in May 2005 at my 6 week check up after having my 2nd son. I loved it, I never felt it, never had any side affects, concerns or problems with it. I had to go in December 2009 to have it replaced, because my new insurance for 2010 wasn't going to pay for me to get a new one....so loved it before should love the new one....right? WRONG! I had it placed 12-22-09...passed out on the table with the removal and insertion of a new one.....had pain, cramps and HEAVY bleeding (normally periods before were like 1 day-2 at the most, light and easy on me). Doctor even did an ultrasound to make sure that he didn't punture my uterus in the process.....they said everything looked good. I thought it would be ok, well the pain cramps, fatigue, pregnancy symptoms start in early January and then the damn thing falls out on 1-22-2010!!! I have felt worse since it came out than I ever did with the first one in. The Dr said, we can't place a new one until 2 weeks from it coming out and you have a normal period and then pass a pregnancy test, well, that's been 3 weeks and the Dr hasn't seen me, won't call me back and hasn't do blood tests, all pregnancy tests keep coming back negative, but I can't shake the pregnancy symptoms. My husband and I are ok with the possibility of having another baby; but I'm angry that mine was in and fine for years and now I've had nothing but trouble and NO SUPPORT from my Dr or his staff to help me with my concerns. I feel thrown to the wind and am ready to find a new doc. Still don't know if I'm pregnant or if it's my brain messing with my body. I won't be able to have another one, might be a good idea after reading what you all have had to say.......but, I'm too young to do anything permanent and nothing else works for my body. allergy to condoms (trust me, all types); spermicide too. My husband said, if you go back on BC pills, we will end up divorced; sounds silly, but they tear me up worse than anything. I truly thought that I had found my saving grace in the mirena. I feel so defeated.