Finally...
Well ladies, I have posted a few times before...but this one has me feeling finally relieved! I have a doctor's appointment thursday with a NEW gyno! I want a second oppinion on why I'm having cramps...b/c I KNOW it's NOT a "lazy bowel". I'm also demanding an ultrasound to show proof of anything. I have done a self check and my strings are lower...yes i did try to take it out...but chickened out. but idk. ANYWAYS...After a huge fight with my husband last week...which had us both in tears...he told me to take it out. He was tired of seeing me like this, and in pain all the time. me crying, bawls " I can't be on birthcontrol pills though! He asks why and i tell him b/c of my bloodpressure...he's like "sweetie, we're married, we dont need any." Again, I bawl "we can't afford another baby at the moment" He's like you know what? If you get pregnant, we'll figure out something to afford it, if we don't (another story...he thought he couldnt' ahve kids...which is what a doc told him, an i got pregnant with our son ) good for us...So just the other day he made the comment that our son needed a twin sized bed, the toddler bed is getting to small for him he thought..."we need to get a new one and take this one down and put in the building incase we have another baby....(the quickly goes) or if we wanna get rid of it. ... more »
Well ladies, I have posted a few times before...but this one has me feeling finally relieved! I have a doctor's appointment thursday with a NEW gyno! I want a second oppinion on why I'm having cramps...b/c I KNOW it's NOT a "lazy bowel". I'm also demanding an ultrasound to show proof of anything. I have done a self check and my strings are lower...yes i did try to take it out...but chickened out. but idk. ANYWAYS...After a huge fight with my husband last week...which had us both in tears...he told me to take it out. He was tired of seeing me like this, and in pain all the time. me crying, bawls " I can't be on birthcontrol pills though! He asks why and i tell him b/c of my bloodpressure...he's like "sweetie, we're married, we dont need any." Again, I bawl "we can't afford another baby at the moment" He's like you know what? If you get pregnant, we'll figure out something to afford it, if we don't (another story...he thought he couldnt' ahve kids...which is what a doc told him, an i got pregnant with our son ) good for us...So just the other day he made the comment that our son needed a twin sized bed, the toddler bed is getting to small for him he thought..."we need to get a new one and take this one down and put in the building incase we have another baby....(the quickly goes) or if we wanna get rid of it.
End of story...I'm getting it taken out ASAP! I wanna be my oldself again. I wanna lose weight. an quit having horrendous moodswings! ladies, you all have been an inspiration to me, as well as to others. I love this site knowing i'm not the only one, and know this forum is like a huge family. Thank you guys mucho for being there for me!
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